I completely understand! I actually am having a similar (but of course different) problem with my HTB. He hasn't figured out gifts yet, and it seems he would rather not ask another groomsman to even out the wedding party because he doesn't know if he can afford the gifts.
I am totally OCD so composition is important to me in everyday life - pictures, candles, vases, you name it - so with wedding stuff it does, too. But *alas* I have hit a compositional brick wall :)
I can sympathize with the emotional support going miles and miles. My lifelong best friend is way up north, and it seems like everyone is super busy. Not that she could solve the problem, but wishing she was here all of the time. I am lucky that another best friend is in town, but she is super busy too :) We'll make it, after all there is a whole week for a honeymoon destress, and a whole life time with wedding madness behind us and love ahead of us.
Oh, man. You're bringing back the memories. I remember sitting in Nashville and trying to plan a St. Louis wedding, and it seemed like no one would take my calls. And Jeff and I had The Same Argument over groomsmen gifts (we ended up giving them knives! WTF?!). The best news is (and I got really sick of hearing it): It will all come together. And your wedding day will be absolutely perfect. And it will fly by.
It's a smart move to sleep in this weekend. You should plan a lot of those in the coming months!
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I am totally OCD so composition is important to me in everyday life - pictures, candles, vases, you name it - so with wedding stuff it does, too. But *alas* I have hit a compositional brick wall :)
I can sympathize with the emotional support going miles and miles. My lifelong best friend is way up north, and it seems like everyone is super busy. Not that she could solve the problem, but wishing she was here all of the time. I am lucky that another best friend is in town, but she is super busy too :) We'll make it, after all there is a whole week for a honeymoon destress, and a whole life time with wedding madness behind us and love ahead of us.
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It's a smart move to sleep in this weekend. You should plan a lot of those in the coming months!